I am 57, and my desire seems to be fine, almost as strong as 30 years ago. I am nor impotent, but it does take a lot longer to get an erection, and there is a lot more time between them. I rarely have spontaneous erections, but can usually respond if a woman spends enough time helping me out with oral or other physical stimulation. Do you think this is fairly normal at my age of 57? I want to avoid drugs if at all possible. I am thankful that my wife seems to be willing to give the extra foreplay a stimulation I need, and I hope she doesn’t eventually get bored with it. What is the opinion out there? Do you think requiring more foreplay and physical stimulation from the woman is normal as we age? Do you think most women in that age range are willing to do that, or will they eventually get bored with it?